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Sex, Drugs, and Jesus
Episode #170: Mastering Detachment
INTRODUCTION:
This episode was somewhat challenging to record because the devil got all up in my lighting, Wi-Fi, MacBook and things. Things went haywire but nevertheless here it is. Let us learn why we must let go of people and negative habits and then get about the business of letting God help us do just that.
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INCLUDED IN THIS EPISODE (But not limited to):
· Detach At Any Cost.
· What Are Your Crowns???
· #DETACHMENTPARTIES!!!!!
· REMEMBER YOUR DIVINITY – YOUR TRUE NATURE
· God Has Already Demonstrated Detachment.
· Discomfort Is Beneficial.
· What Is Your Sacrifice?
· Forgiveness Is Easier With Mastery Of Detachment.
· Old School Lessons.
· What Deity Are You Praying/Loyal To?
· Our Meat Suits Do Not Matter.
· Soulmate Energy Movement.
· DO NOT DISRESPECT SACRED VISION.
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Episode #170: Mastering Detachment
De'Vannon Seráphino: [00:00:00] Hello, hello, all my beautiful kings, queens, and everything in betweens. And welcome back to the Sex, Drugs, and Jesus podcast. My name is Davan and Serafino. Heaven's blessings fall upon each and every one of you obedient children today. I'm coming to you to talk about mastering detachment. We're going to swerve and take a break from my tarot lessons that I've been teaching you for a couple of weeks here, because there's other matters that have come before me certain questions people have been asking me when I travel and things like that, that I want to tend to, because I have enough sense to realize that if different people keep asking me the same question that I might need to pray about.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Whether or not this is the spirit, you know, hinting at me that I need to do some sort of message about it. And today we're talking about mastering detachment. Our website is sexdrugsandjesus. com. The lingerie website is down under apparel. com. YouTube sex drugs and [00:01:00] Jesus podcast. Same thing on TikTok. I post to most social media networks, but mainly most of the action is on TikTok and YouTube.
De'Vannon Seráphino: In the book of Proverbs in chapter 14, it tells us that When we perceive and not wisdom in somebody, when we understand that somebody has the lips of foolishness and they ain't got no sense coming from their goddamn mouth, that we're supposed to depart from such people. In the New Testament, it speaks of such people as having like reprobate minds.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You know, people, no matter how much you try to talk to them, you're not gonna get no, no, no rhyme or reason out of them. You're not gonna get any sense. So we want to be careful about this. So we're, we, we must master detachment. Why? Because, well, God has commanded you to do it, but there was no command that God ever gave you that was not for your own good in the first place.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Some people call themselves trying to fight God or don't want to fuck with God, or whatever the case might [00:02:00] be, but God is the best thing that ever happened to you. And once you learn to stop running from Him and run to Him, then you will experience this thing you've never had before, which is pure fucking bliss and happiness.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Which is something only he can give you like devils and people and things like that can give you sensual pleasure But only God can give you down to the bone marrow of your soul Fucking happiness where you are fully at home in yourself at one with heaven at one with God and at one with everything That is true to God And have peace in this earth, no matter what is happening in this earth.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's something you can only get from God. You can get fake versions of that from many places, and you won't even much be able to tell the difference if you are not filled with the Holy Ghost and close enough to God to be able to tell what sort of spirits and energies are really dealing with you. In a future episode, which won't be long away, I'm gonna really dig [00:03:00] into this whole All this new age talk that people have like the universe and energies and source and tell you exactly why I disagree with it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Okay. It's like y'all are headed in the right direction, but you're circling the bullseye, but you're not really hitting it. So I'm gonna do what I can help you fine tune this thing you call spirituality. These energies and things that you talk about aren't just globs of mystic dust flying about. They're actually spirits, a mind of their own.
De'Vannon Seráphino: These are sentient beings that have their own will. Well, they either listen to the Lord or they listen to the devil. The devil is God's child. That's just why he doesn't have any power over God. But these, but these en energies are spirits. They have, they are sentient. They think they have a will of their own.
De'Vannon Seráphino: They are, they, they have chosen which side they're gonna be obedient to, and they not just random forces floating about, like, these things attach to you. They follow you, they help you, or they hurt you. I'm really gonna get into this [00:04:00] and, and at least offer you a more granular and finite. A way to approach your spirituality to try to get you out of this spiritual gray haze that all this like new age talk is in it's it's like a thing.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm gonna deal with it the book of Revelation. It tells us to let no man. It says the whole fast at which you have that no man take the crown. What is your crown? Your crown is anything that you're proud of, anything that the Lord has given you, you have co created with God to make your honor, your dignity, your equanimity, your internal fortitude, your self esteem, your your reputation, the way you think about yourself.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You know, your, your, your connection with God, you notice I didn't describe anything physical. Okay. Because that's not really what we're dealing with here. We're dealing with the true truth and the true you, which is nothing that can be [00:05:00] seen. This is the real you is inside of you. What the devil is really after is you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: He's really after your purpose for being, he's not really after these material things. As you remember when Jesus was being tempted. By the devil after, after the Holy Ghost came down and descended on him, when John the Baptist baptized him, and Jesus went forth in the wilderness to fast for 40 days and 40 nights, and to be tempted of Lucifer, the devil would've just as quickly given Lucifer, given Lord Jesus, given Jesus all the kingdoms of the world, and with all the lust and pleasure and sensuality that comes along with it in exchange for Jesus bowing to him.
De'Vannon Seráphino: What? What's the devil? After Jesus says, honor the power of his word. You know, trying to make him a hypocrite and do all kinds of things like that. The devil could give two fucks less about the very things you bow your knee to the devil for and sell your soul for. You can give a damn because he knows his world is not really real.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's fading and it's passing. He also knows his time in short. [00:06:00] The book of revelations says for you to hold fast at what you have, that no man take thy crown. So when you refuse to detach from people who you know are toxic, who you know are bad for your fucking health, who you know you argue with all the time, who you have no logical rhyme or damn reason for keeping these people in your motherfucking life.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Okay, what you're doing is letting crown snatchers creep into your camp, into your body, into your mind, into your soul, and take from you the very, the most, the most valuable things that you own, which is all of these internal things. Your peace is another crown. If I ask you that question, and I pose that question to you, can you write out for me, what are your crowns?
De'Vannon Seráphino: What do you really honor and value that you hold dear? I'm not talking about nothing physical, you know, what is your crown that the devil would be after that he can take from you through low vibrational people who you allow [00:07:00] to get next to you who you won't detach from? I'm going to leave that question with you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: My opinion, I say we should start throwing detachment parties. I mean, shit, when we detach, you will cry. You will enter, you know, over into your five of five of cups card energy and you know, mourn over those spilled cups or your eight of cups. You know, having to leave some shit behind, some people behind, that's natural, but those tears don't flow forever.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But if you stay with people who are a burden to you, those tears will never stop. You know, we were who we were before we met these people. We're going to be better after we leave these people. But we are who we are apart from anybody else before our Lord, period. And we must remember that we are divinity first before we take on a physical form.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Out [00:08:00] a physical way that we interact with people, your spirits first. So I say, let's start throwing detachment parties. And every time you cut a bitch off, as you, as you're crying, your tears, call your girl up, be like, girl, I didn't cut another one off. Okay. Bring the Molly, bring the MDMA, bring the shrooms, you know, bring the LSD girl.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Or the motherfucking carbonated water, whatever it is that you do. Y'all know I don't fuck with alcohol because it's so low vibrational and it has a way of making depressed people more depressed. So I fuck, I don't fuck with alcohol. My life's been better ever since I let it go. Thank you, Jesus. But throw detachment parties.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's a powerful thing when you honor and love the will of God enough and yourself enough to say, you know what, this relationship is not working. It is not serving me. I'll let you go. Period. I [00:09:00] think that this is to be celebrated. So, I say fuck a birthday, fuck a baby shower, if I had to choose. I'd much rather the detachment party because this is a celebration of freedom, of liberation, of you being unshackled and unchained from devil energy.
De'Vannon Seráphino: This is a cause to celebrate in God and rejoice. Yes, let's start doing detachment parties every time we cut somebody the fuck off and make it a whole turn up, if not a goddamn kiki.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And when we get into this, this spirit of detachment, I wanted to point out to you that God has given us his example already, when he sent his son down here to die for our sins. And this is another thing that I'm going to, I'm going to stay on track with this for now. When he sent his son down here to die for our sins, [00:10:00] he let go of, of, of that very valuable relationship to send pure divinity down here to take on like a human form, and then to suffer and to be ridiculed and to be rejected as the world tends to do to lightworkers, okay?
De'Vannon Seráphino: That was detachment. He let his own child go. How many of you would let your only child go be disrespected by people for the sake of those people? The Lord has demonstrated detachment. And when Jesus ascended after the crucifixion, then the Holy Ghost came down here and took his place. Now, you know, the Holy Ghost is like the female manifestation of God in the Trinity.
De'Vannon Seráphino: We have God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's like, that's like God and Jesus letting like they girl go out and, you know, fight a war, you know, on their [00:11:00] behalf in a way and for humanity who really rejects the Holy Ghost, who talks about the Holy Ghost anymore, you know, especially on like zoom or, you know, YouTube and different things like that talks about the Holy Ghost.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I do because she's still here and she ain't been home in over 2000 years. And you want to talk about detachment and letting go of a comfort zone? I'm sure she was just fine and dandy, you know, up in heaven, marinating and doing whatever it is that the Holy Ghost would do up in heaven, and heaven is a rocking good time.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's not some boring place. It isn't. And, how do I know? You know, I might talk about that in shows in the future, but I know what I'm talking about. So, and, I'll just say like, yeah, I'm just going to leave that alone for right now, that the Holy Ghost, you know, was just fine up there, but she let all that [00:12:00] go to come down here and deal with humans over 2000 years. She's still ain't been home. And so,
De'Vannon Seráphino: and since the Trinity functions as one, God is also demonstrating another key element of detachment, which is detachment from thine own self. This is true self mastery that detached from yourself and from the people around you. This here is a dismantling
De'Vannon Seráphino: of whatever it is that you used to understand or think or believe. So that you don't fall into this trap of becoming like some type of creature of some type of habit. Because there's no such thing as a true creature of habit, man, because everybody fucking changes and transforms on a daily basis down to our cellular level.
De'Vannon Seráphino: We are always in a state of transition. Anybody calls himself a creature of habit, that is a self deceived individual. It's a lie. It is literally impossible. [00:13:00] You got your go tos. But people who I've heard say that are people who are in this stuck ass energy, they're not talking about like playing their favorite video game all the time or going down to their favorite coffee shop.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's not what they talking about. They're talking about their resistance to deep change. They're talking about their resistance to, to transformation, their fear of letting go of, of what is familiar. I warn you against this. If you find yourself saying things like you are a creature of habit, you better watch that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Because God has a way of coming and shocking you up out of that lie, because he did not put you here to sit there and marinate and get into a place of complacency and stay the same. That is not your function. Your function is to grow, change, adopt, and then to bring others along with you. Not to get into a sweet spot of comfort in life and then just kind of hang out until you die.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Nah, ma'am. Nah, ma'am. That's not what the point is.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And see, the thing about energies and [00:14:00] spirits. These things have, like I said, they have a mind of their own and they will attach to you when you're in a,
De'Vannon Seráphino: when you're in a relationship with somebody, whatever it is, you're not really in a relationship with that person. You're in a relationship with their spirit and whatever spirits they are entertaining in sexual situations, especially. Okay, you're really technically, especially if you call yourself being Polly, you're really in a relationship with not just that you, whoever your primary is, if you bother to have a primary at all, and, you're in a relationship with, with all of those collective spirits and energies of everybody who's sleeping with everybody, the powerful thing you're playing with.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Or engaging with, but any kind of energy or spirit that you are coming to contact with is either going to elevate you, or it is going to [00:15:00] try to destroy you. There are no neutral energies. It don't work that way because spirits are not like humans in the sense that they understand that there is not time to fuck around and spend time on what might happen if they might change, if they might grow, if
De'Vannon Seráphino: this person might do this or this person might do that. Spirits got a mission and they, and they got, they got, they got shit to do. Okay, we are always in a constant state of change. That change is either going to be improving or devolving. You can't, there is no neutrality here. There's no demilitarized zone here.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You're either going to elevate and get a little better every day, or you're going to fuck around and get a little bit worse every day. And the thing about it is you cannot judge [00:16:00]this by like your physicality. What am I saying? Like a, like a person could have a million dollars. And be planning to ink a deal and make 10 million more, but if the way they went about doing that deal, and if the relationships they have in their life are low vibrational, what's going to happen is they are actually going to go down lower in all of those internal things that I talked about at the beginning of this message here.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And they gonna trade they soul for things in the world. You see what I'm saying? You have to learn how to stop looking at people and physical and start learning how to look at the spirit behind everything. Like, I don't people watch. I spirit watch. I don't give a damn how somebody presents or looks.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's not really what the fuck they are. You know, I stare into their fucking soul and actually extract out of them the true truth of their nature. Because I'm [00:17:00] not about to be caught up in no foolishness, dealing with a lying ass spirit standing in front of me trying to look like what it's not. Not today, Satan.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm not gonna have it. And many people have fallen. I have fallen and been destroyed in life before, as I've covered in previous works, due to the fucking people I had close to me that I refused to detach from, even though I know their relationships were Evil, fucked up, codependent, fucked up attachment styles, all of that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But your ass is either gonna do better with the people you have around you, or you're going to do worse because of them. And there will be no in between. And this can only be judged by what's going on inside of you. Not your external, sensual experiences, uh uh. That's not the tea. That is not the tea at all.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And you know, detachment is uncomfortable business. It's not supposed to be comfortable, but just as sure as the High Trinity, as I just described, has demonstrated for us detachment. There's victory in the end. [00:18:00] I mean, Jesus came here and he was uncomfortable, but he got the victory. You know, in the book of Revelation, it talks about even though the Holy Ghost has been down here at the end of the day, God gets the ultimate victory.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And there's many examples, you know, of all kinds of people putting themselves in uncomfortable situation fasting for this many days this many nights going without leaving this and that behind to ultimately be well rewarded for it when it was all said and done. See, it's about how you end my babies, not how you let the devil distract you with sensual pleasures during this life.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's about how you end up in the afterlife, and if you ever come to a point of full joy within this life, it's not about, it's not as much about the in between as the devil would have you think. But detachment
De'Vannon Seráphino: is not supposed to be comfortable, but life is not supposed to be comfortable all the time. And see, people have to get out of this habit.[00:19:00]
De'Vannon Seráphino: of thinking that they're supposed to escape discomfort. I had somebody actually tell me that they don't want to be uncomfortable. They've grown accustomed to being comfortable and they don't see, they think life is not supposed to be hard. Not generally speaking, but if you have a consistently comfortable existence, what's going to happen is you're going to slip into a state of exalting yourself against the Lord.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It'll happen to you subconsciously, subliminally, slowly over time. And the devil will drip you down into a place of pride. Struggles and challenges and strife must come. This is balance. We're not supposed to have shit be good all the time. And detachment is one of the things that you can do to get ahead of
De'Vannon Seráphino: of the discomfort that must come if you do it yourself, but the Lord rewards this discomfort, you know, you know, I think about the people in the wilderness who are following Jesus and [00:20:00] what they weren't eating, but you know they were fucking worn out and tired because they were so thirsty for the word.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And for holiness and for trying to get close to God, they weren't worrying about no fucking food and the material things of this world. They had, they were singularly focused on spiritual evolution and them people were wore out and discomfort and they detached from their usual creature comforts. And then the Lord turned around and performed a miracle for them and fed them with the fishes, two fishes, the five loaves of bread.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You know, those, those two miracles that was done in those types of miracles, then people went from being incredibly uncomfortable to receiving a miracle that we still talk about to this day, that's the way it works. You're not going to always suffer. And the Lord is not going to leave you in no detached state, but you got to take that leap of faith and trust him and trust that what you're doing is right.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And let these people go. And you should not trust no damn human more than you trust the Lord in any fucking way. And that's what a lot of people's problem is, is people are addicted to people [00:21:00] and addicted to community and addicted to relationships, but it looks so cute that they don't recognize it as addiction.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Well, a lot of addictions look that way. Coffee addictions, perhaps, you know, there's a lot of shit that doesn't look as, as, as toxic and poisonous as it is, but it still is though.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And, and, and in this vein of like a reward system that, that God definitely has set up in the book of Mark, from the New Testament, I'm going to read this to you. And Jesus answered and said. Verily, verily, I say unto you, there is no man, man, woman, child, trans, whatever it all applies, that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my sake, and for the sake of the gospel, but he shall [00:22:00] receive an hundredfold now in this lifetime, in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions, and in the world to come eternal life.
De'Vannon Seráphino: There's a scripture that says, gather my saints that God is talking and he says, I think it's in the book of Isaiah and he says, gather my saints together onto me. Those that have made a covenant with me by sacrifice. I'm gonna tell you right now, if you cannot list out what you have sacrificed in order to get to know the Lord, you have not gone far enough with God.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Not that we could ever go far enough. But you should question like how authentic you really are before the Lord, because it should cost you something, some type of pain, you know, to leave something behind. It really, really proves to the Lord that you love him above everything. Every child, every lover, every pleasure you have got to put God first.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And what [00:23:00] Mark is talking about here is that you will be rewarded for it, but it's like the Lord, it's like you leave the father, mother, wife, children, brother, not everybody's going to have to leave all of this, but you get the point. And then it's like the Lord is going to turn around and give you a better version of it than what you had before.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's actually going to be high vibrational this time since you had enough sense and strength and willingness to detach and let it go. And it says with persecutions, you will have trouble in this life and you want that for the reasons I told you so that you do not become prideful and exalt yourself against the Lord.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Which would ultimately, ultimately result in you being struck down anyway, because pride is not going to stand before the Lord. And a haughty heart comes before a fall.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But sacrifice is no small thing before the Lord. It does not go unnoticed, and you will be rewarded if you take that leap of faith and you mean it sincerely. Now, speaking of father, mother, sister, brothers, and all of that, I need you to understand, my beautiful [00:24:00] children, that every relationship in your life exists outside of you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And is therefore not technically necessary. See, how can I say this? Like your mother, your lover, your friend or whatever, or a spirit first, just like you are before they function in that role, and in that capacity cuz really what you're after. Is whatever supportive energy and or whatever supportive vibe, whatever supportive structure that this person is bringing.
De'Vannon Seráphino: If anybody's gonna be in your life, they have to provide a sort of function or value. So your mother, like that spirit, for instance, could have been embodied in any meat suit. So this is why chosen family is a real thing. So if you've got like a bitch of a mother who's a total cunt and just, is just is abusive or whatever, okay, then you fire her ass and then [00:25:00] you might adopt a drag queen, you know, for, for like your new mother or, or whoever the fuck, or your sister might become your mother or aunt or whatever.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And you still get that mother energy, that mother comfort from this other person. So the, so it does not have to be coming from a certain particular sack of flesh, a certain person. It really, what you're after is the energy in that person or the role that person plays, you know, the spirit from within the spirit that that person represents.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So you're after mother energy, but the Lord could give you that through any fucking body. It could come through like a dude. If he's a single dad. It doesn't matter, you know, mother is like a feminine energy, does not have to come through an anatomical woman. So he's trying to teach you how you got to get off of this idea that you need Sally in your life.
De'Vannon Seráphino: No, you don't. You need whatever the fuck Sally represents. So is that a girlfriend? Is that a mother? Is that an aunt? Is that a coworker? Is that a child? That could come through any fucking body. So if [00:26:00] Sally fucks up, we tell Sally to kick rocks. And then we ask the Lord to give us that in a different way.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But we don't need Sally. We need what Sally represents. You understand what I'm saying?
De'Vannon Seráphino: But you gotta seriously fall in love with God more than any fucking body else. More than yourself. More than anything you can do. You have to approach everybody with this mentality of like, Your ass is expendable. Okay? Not that you look forward to the next time you can cut somebody off. I mean, you know, it is what it is if you gotta do it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But you have to think that everybody in your life, there is nobody, and I mean fucking nobody, who you won't get rid of if you have to. Otherwise, your mind is going to make excuses for you to maintain relationships that abuse you. If you honestly think that you cannot be without this person, and the Lord just told you in Mark, you gotta be willing to let go of mother, father, [00:27:00]sister, brother, lover, whoever the fuck.
De'Vannon Seráphino: God wants to see that you love him before any damn body. And if you don't, you're fucking up. And that's all that there is to it. God loves you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Again, everything is about why you are here. So what the devil will do is like, say, take a light worker, an earth angel, especially somebody who does not know that they're an earth angel yet, what is an earth angel and especially sensitive individual. Okay. Who has a special set of like gifts and things like that sent from God and special connection to the other side, things like that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And the devil will. Try to surround that person with darklings, okay, to try to suppress their light, you know, this is why a lot of us earth angels, got to go through all of this chaos and dealing with narcissistic relationships and codependent energies and shit like that. And if we can get disentangled from that, then we get kicked into these ascensions, into these [00:28:00] enlightening, enlightenments, into these awakenings, into these kundalini risings and everything's.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And And, and the, these rapid ever spiritual evolutions and growth and, and, because then the lights come on, we have the life experience that we need to go and do this light work. But if the Lucifer gets his way, he will suppress that earth angel and kill them or make them run out their clock and then they'll die or some shit and we'll never have done what they're supposed to do.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But the whole purpose of us being here is to fulfill some type of mission from heaven, from God, God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy ghost. Okay. And and not to sit around here and just serve ourselves and have fun. Well, we can have fun and serve God at the same time. But what the devil is after is your mission.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Not really you, per se.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And see, when you master detachment, it can make forgiveness a lot easier [00:29:00] because
De'Vannon Seráphino: As you understand that people are, I mean, you've already kind of sort of let go of a person before you even met them, and you already know people are subject to change. It doesn't mean that you won't fully give yourself to somebody as much as one person can give themselves to somebody in whatever capacity.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But you understand if shit changes, it fucking changes. And you understand that shit will change. And as sure as you grow spiritually, you must let other people go, because the people around you are not going to grow when you grow, necessarily. Or be able to yet be compatible with you and you will sacrifice your destiny and the Lord will snatch you back down if you are unwilling to let people go in light of your spiritual growth because your priority has to be your purpose, not people.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But it's much easier to forgive when [00:30:00] you operate from this mentality because you know they did that dumb shit. Alright, they are where they are on their path. Not a very light, enlightened path, because they stupid as fuck, but you know what, I'm not about to sit here and be angry about it. I used to do that type of shit, or whatever the case might be, so on and so forth.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm just gonna detach from this, I forgive them, whether I get an apology or not, and I let it go. See, you're not just detaching from physical things, you're detaching from bitterness. You're detaching from the spirit of unforgiveness. You're detaching from holding grudges. Once you, it's a cool ass thing, like once you learn to, to, to master yourself.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And in detaching from physical things, it's like it, that's power bleeds into other areas of your life. I started doing this with fasting when I was in like middle or high school, just taking hours, days without eating or drinking water or hours throughout the day without eating or drinking water or days or just eating vegetables, some type of way that was [00:31:00] remixing my usual routine and denying myself something that I liked.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I learned to master my flesh through this over the years. Okay. And, and, and for fasting is one way to begin to master detachment. I mean, I so rarely hear people talk about fasting anymore. It is, so, you know,
De'Vannon Seráphino: like the things that I grew up being taught by, by like them old spiritual people and the true prophets and the true seers and the true people who had vision from God. It seemed like it's coming. It's always been relevant, but there's like a pressing need. For a very refined and clear and true closeness to God coming upon this earth, you're not going to be able to be vague in your spirituality in order to survive and keep your head on straight through what is to come.
De'Vannon Seráphino: All right, [00:32:00] you gonna have to know you who do you serve, who do you pray to not meditate to or manifest to who the fuck do you get on your knees and your face and bow down. Before to call on in the day of destruction to get a miracle and a deliverance. If you need it, you know, what, what, what deity are you praying to?
De'Vannon Seráphino: And like, like I was saying earlier about how it's not really the person you want in your life is what they represent that spirit, that energy. Think about like, say your job. You want fucking money, so if you making 85, 000 a year at job X and you leave that job or they fire you, you go find another job making 85, 000 a year or more.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Or whatever. The point is that you need money whether that's from from job A, B, C through Z. Who gives a damn? I mean, you want to be, of course, somewhere where you vibe with it and the energy is aligned, but at its most base level, you're there for money. Okay. So God can send that money to [00:33:00] you through anybody, through any organization, the end game is that you want income.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Doesn't matter. You see how people skip jobs. They, people don't mind detaching from a place of work in this day in time. they, like I'm on to the next one whatever. Some people I know get hired at a new place with the intention of leaving when they first move in, the first, first take or accept the offer. I don't know why you can't treat people the same fucking way.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm not saying my God, go get in relationships with people with the, with the intention of leaving, but you get my fucking point. You ain't really attached to that employer. You're attached to the benefit that employer brings, and you would go and get those benefits from another employer if that employer disrespects you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Okay, why the fuck are you sitting in this house with people who have not respected you for years, if they ever have, or in this relationship or whatever the case might be with people who have Not respected you for years. If they ever have imma sip me a little bit of [00:34:00] tea on that one. Okay. Yeah. I was down in Mexico for all that time doing my shamanic training.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It was a nice toasty fucking 80 something degrees down there. Now I'm back in New York where it's like all of 35 degrees tonight. And so, and that's without the wind chill factor. It is what it is.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And, you know, if, if, if any sort of source. I hate to use that word source. I don't mean source the way people be trying to say that source is God and I disagree with that. If there's any kind of way God is blessing you through a thing, should that fail, the Lord will raise up deliverance to you from somewhere else.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Think about the story of Queen Esther from the Old Testament, from the Hebrew Bible. [00:35:00] When her, I think her uncle Mordecai was telling her, When their enemy, Haman, was trying to kill the Jews and, and, and Mordecai told Esther, like, look, baboo, now sit there as a queen and keep your mouth shut, thinking you're going to escape this persecution, because Esther was one of the Jews, too. She had been promoted to being a queen because, because the king found favor with Esther. And Mordecai told her, you don't, you're not going to escape this.
De'Vannon Seráphino: If you close your mouth, then the Lord gonna raise up deliverance from the Jews from somewhere else, and you're gonna get your ass destroyed. Amen. So what was Mordecai telling Esther? Like, you're not as important as you think you are. The role that you are playing is what God put you there. This is your purpose in life, was to stand and help these Jews get delivered.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Not to sit there and be a queen and have your feast and twirl around in your expensive garbs [00:36:00] and all that. Have all that, but also serve your purpose too. So, had she kept her mouth shut, then the Lord would have rose up deliverance from somewhere else, but the Jews would have still been delivered, it just would have come from another place.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You see what I'm saying? These sacks of flesh do not matter.
De'Vannon Seráphino: One interesting thing here, I'm, I'm gonna take me a bit of a caveat here. You remember that, that dream that I have been teaching y'all from where I had that dream about this dude who I was trying to be in this like relationship with and everything and then I had this dream about him about all these fucking people that he has his energy in these Fucking controlling ass, witch ass blood magic wielding ass fucking women.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And the [00:37:00] spirit gave me that long ass dream, you know, and I'm not complaining about that. I've been a dreamer since I was five years old. This dream here stands out amongst almost 40 years worth of dreaming. This dream here is one for the books bitch. Okay? And, and I saw all this detail and I told, and I, and I taught on the, taught on this in other messages, and I was meditating on this.
De'Vannon Seráphino: On this, on this message here and that, you know, what, you know what, that whole, then I ended up this, this detaching from him, even though I spent like a good eight months trying to get to know him and trying to like, you know, You know, by figure out a way to be with him and all of that, but he chose to not detach from these people and he chose not to follow the advice, not the advice, the commands of the Lord.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I can't fuck with somebody who is going to just tell extend a middle finger finger to God, but I got [00:38:00] to go. Because when that destruction comes upon him, which is what was prophesied in the dream through him, then it will come. I can't be around people when they have that. I don't know. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You never want to let yourself get caught up in somebody else's negative judgment. Don't think that you can stand next to somebody who's under wrath and not get consumed by you. Don't you do that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But what God has power to do, and I really want to take a second here to tell you this. And I is to switch soulmate energy. I had not thought about this since I was a child, evangelist Nelson, the prophetess who raised me. And who I served under, you know, from the 8th grade until she died a few years ago, learning directly under a high clairvoyant like that, a high prophetess like that, who had every [00:39:00] spiritual gift, my God Almighty.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I never thought that I would. You know, I did not understand the transfer that was happening during all those years of service to her glory be to God one time in church Prophetess Nelson, you know, stood up, stood this lady up, because, you know, in those days they would prophesy in church because prophecy is beneficial for the edification of the church as I'm about to demonstrate.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So when they never said anything inappropriate or out of order, that did not happen not once cuz the Lord, not going to let us say something we're not supposed to. But when we hear about what other people are going through, especially through prophecy and what God is doing, and we know what God has done for one, You know he'll do for us too.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's the point of it all. Because God is a transparent God. Hence the Bible. I suggest you read it. Don't read it in order. Because it is not a cover to cover book. [00:40:00] Start with Proverbs one Proverb a day. And then go from there. We have instructions in that regard over on the sexdrugsandjesus. com website. Which I'll be adding to things about how to pray. How to read the Bible and things like that. It's just free. You can go click on it. This woman had received a vision poof, and the Lord had showed her who her soulmate is, and Prophetess Nelson was granted this vision of her vision.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Okay. And you know, while we were in church, but this woman had decided she did not want this man for whatever the reason and evangelist Nelson was prophesying. She was like, God showed you in a vision who your soulmate was. And even as Nelson was looking at her, like, but you don't want this man, you would think, [00:41:00] I would think that God would have been like, no, I showed you who your soulmate is.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's who you need to marry. That is not what God did at all. He said, all right, like she had this other dude in mind or whatever the case might be. And, and evangelist Nelson said, you know, God said, all right, I'm going to give you this other person.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I was like, what? I mean, but what did she say? I was not expecting that. I was expecting that woman to be told what she just had to deal with. No, God is a flexible and a powerful God. He can do whatever he pleases. As the scripture says, our God sits in the heavens that he has done whatsoever he has pleased.
De'Vannon Seráphino: and can't nobody change his will. He can do whatever he wants, period, period. I witnessed with my own eyes. I saw that she married this dude. [00:42:00] And last time I checked, they was happily ever after. And it was not the original soulmate that the Lord had purposed for her. The Lord turned that whole thing around.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It made it work with a different man. So what did he do? He removed that soulmate energy from dude A, put it in dude B. The Lord will do, will move mountains for you. If you dedicate your soul to him and make a covenant with him by sacrifice and detach. You ain't gonna get God to move like this for you by hemming and hawing with trying to, trying to meditate or call God the universe.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You got to really, really fucking know that God is God. Jesus is his son and believe in the Holy ghost. You got to have the Trinity power behind you to be able to get this type of action from God. He's not going to move like this with nobody who ain't serious about him. It's not going to happen that way.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And you wouldn't do it either for somebody who wasn't devoted to you. None of us would. You don't, because you, you move differently with people according to how you feel about people. We all do that. And that's usually directly [00:43:00] attached to the level of loyalty they have towards us. Generally speaking, you got some strange minds out there, but that's generally the flow.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I saw this woman be granted a new soulmate. And when I was out with this dude, who I used to want to be with, who I don't even want to see or talk to anymore, yeah, I am a Sagittarius, but it is not just a Sagittarius thing to be able to cut people off. And move on. You all must learn how to do this.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It does not matter what your fucking star sun signs are. I guess it might just come a little bit easier to me. But but but it took me a while. I used to be terrible at fucking goodbyes and all of that. I changed who I am now. Who you see before you is not who I used to be at all. I suggest [00:44:00] you go way back.
De'Vannon Seráphino: To like the first episode of Sex, Drugs, and Jesus, and you can see how I've changed from the way I talk, the way I speak, the things I say, my weight, my looks, where all of it, all of it, all of it has changed. But has it been changed coming from the inside manifesting on the outside? It, I
De'Vannon Seráphino: was out,
De'Vannon Seráphino: you know, at a certain place, you know, in New York with this person doing a certain psychedelic and on psychedelics, I have. Visions, I dream I have waking visions. I can see spirits when I'm not on drugs, but when I'm on certain psychedelics, I can see I and I and I and, and, and, and this night that I was out with him, I did not know that I could do this.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I had did, and I, and I did this, this, this, this psychedelic. And then I begin to be [00:45:00] able to see people's auras I could see all the seven. You know how it said that we have like seven spiritual bodies, not just one. Like your etheric one, your astral one, or whatever the case may be, that's a different show that I'm working on coming.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I saw this and everybody I looked, I saw people as like heat signatures. I saw people's souls as different like colors and heat signatures. I could not see physical bodies. I saw like there's, I looked at people and I saw like the soul within them. I looked at him, you know, I saw his soul like rise up out of his body.
De'Vannon Seráphino: body and it was like mimicking whatever he was doing. He was smoking a cigarette at the moment. And so it's like his soul was copying it, but it looked like a gray version of him. I think his was just gray because of the fucking vampiric ass energies has chosen to entertain and drain the life out of him, which the Lord tried to warn him about in the dream, but he refused to listen.[00:46:00]
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I had other visions that night and I saw. While I was wide awake on the psychedelic and I mean, and I saw like the stars moving and everything like that as I'm at this club and I'm not seeing the club and I'm, and I'm seeing like the galaxies move and I saw like him and I, this particular sort of embrace and I was like, damn, I'm like, this is, this is, this is like soulmate energy here.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It was months after I met him and I really wasn't, I was, you know, just kind of like hanging out, talking, whatever. And I was not sure about this relationship or what I was feeling about him and I prayed and asked the Lord to reveal to me the truth as I do about anybody who I have any sort of romantic feelings from I don't just run off and go do whatever with people I pray first and see who the fuck people are and what the fuck's going on and if God is going to bless this union or not and the Lord said he would and I saw us [00:47:00] It's like in this vision, we touch, and when we touched it, it ended the galaxy.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Every world went away, every star, every everything went away.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And you know, I've never spoken of this vision before, other than to him, because I, because when such visions come, you must see how they go and you keep your mouth shut because you don't need to be running your mouth about everything. Okay, because devils have a way of trying to get in shit and fuck with it and you got a lot of enemies whether you think you do or not, especially if you're a light worker.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But now that I'm not going to be with him and I don't fucking want to, I might as well use it for a testimony to demonstrate what God is able to do. I'm like, and I said, this is soulmate energy. This is not just. This is powerful, what God is willing to do between us, because when you really get into a relationship with somebody, what the [00:48:00] Lord was showing me is you do end your life as you know it ends, and you experience this type of death and transformation, you damn sure do.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm like, and when I saw all the mean, every world planted the sun, moon, everything just went into oblivion. And all we did was barely touch the tips of each other's hands. This is the sort of power that two people can wield when you have the Lord in between you and you can take that and turn that into all kinds of alchemical magic.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That can. change your lives and the lives of the people who you choose to sets your affections and like, like your magical and powerful affections and attentions on. Two people standing under the power of God is a force to be reckoned with, honey, but you got to be clear in your head on who you serve and why to get God to move like that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And move, glory be to God. Thank you, Jesus.[00:49:00]
De'Vannon Seráphino: And there was other stuff and things like that, that I saw and I told him all of this and and gave it time, but I was not pleased with the way that it went. And then after this vision, like a month later, a month and a half or whatever, came that dream about the Lord showing me, because this dude called himself being, he was one of those kind of like a monogamous ish, confused ass sort of people playing games with, like, hearts and relationships and bodies.
De'Vannon Seráphino: He wasn't serious about life. And, But nevertheless, the Lord sent this dream. It's almost like God gave him time to see what could be that he gave him this vision to make it clear to him where he's been fucking up and how he needs to let these people go. And then time after that, and then once he decided, having been shown both visions, that he was going to choose codependency and avoidant attachment styles.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's when I said, okay, [00:50:00] bye. And I went before the Lord and I said, Lord, I remember what you did with that to that woman with for that woman back when I was a child. I hadn't thought about this vision in years Lord didn't have a reason to. I'd never been before somebody who came even close to having like serious.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I mean, at least that I was, I mean, that type of soulmate energy before. I don't believe not even in that relationship I was in for four and a half years, this, that, that, that dude and I, who I cut off were on the, were on the brink of, I mean, true power before God, I mean, true fucking power, but he didn't want it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And so I, so I told the Lord, okay. And then I thought about this dream that I had last year after I left the narcissist that I was with. And if you roll the tapes back, you can, you can hear me talk about this and this dream. I saw this dude. And my God, was I in a heartbroken state then, and I had given up on like all men, [00:51:00] they were all the devil and all this, and I don't think that way anymore.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I was just like, I was performing on stage. And well, that happened, I was wearing, I had on like leopard print, you know, cat print. I was dressed like Shania Twain in that Don't Impress Me Much video, and there was all these grey cats. And I was going forth in my divine feminine, like you would not believe, unstoppable.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Unstoppable. I was putting on this show in this huge stadium and everything, and there was this one man sitting in this audience, quiet. Unfazed by all of this activity at this concert or whatever kind of performance I was putting on, and that was like my husband, and he was, he was only focused on me, he was not concerned.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But what nobody else was doing in the whole world he was only had had eyes for me and his energy was singularly focused on De'Vannon Seráphino and, And, [00:52:00] but I couldn't see his face, which was very peculiar because when I have a dream or a vision, I always see faces. I know what people look like. I know what they're doing.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I can see clearly. And I was like, wow, I don't know why I can't see this dude's face. And so what I why I think it is, is because The energy that he represents is what I need is what if I'm going to ever have a man is what I need true supportive undistracted devotion. Okay, this is the only thing I'll even accept at this point, there was a time I would have considered polyamory.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I would have tried to work with that, like with this previous dude I was trying to get to know, but I'm not going to do it now, because the people are too fucked up, and they are too willing to stay fucked up, and to fuck with people who are fucked up, and I don't have time to be getting fucked up.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm not going to do it. And so, but, but the [00:53:00] dude was faceless because it does not matter the face. Does not matter. The Lord could put that spirit into any man walking this earth. And I am not heartaching over letting that dude go. There's a being conservative, probably another 7 million damn grown ass men in New York, not counting Jersey, Connecticut, Massachusetts.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Girl, bye. Girl, bye. I'm not worried about him. And, but I went before the Lord and I was like, I need you to do for me. What you did for that woman back then, and remove the soulmate energy that you put in that dude who has rejected your counsel and your word, and therefore rejecting you, and I need you to move it into a man who is worthy, and somebody who is going to know you and give a fuck about you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And care about, yeah, I don't care. If you gotta cuss when you pray, bitch, you cuss. God gets it. People are offended with that, not the Lord. You just gotta be sincere. [00:54:00] And if you gotta start off praying with fucks and bitches and cunts and, and then that's how the fuck you start praying, goddammit. And so, don't you let nobody tell you how you're supposed to talk to God, he'll tell you and correct you if you need it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Don't you let nobody else control your prayers, I don't believe in prescribed prayers other than the one. Jesus Christ told you, which is the Our Father prayer, other than that, shouldn't nobody have told you what to say to pray. You need to be sincere when you talk to God. And that's a lot of the reasons God won't move for y'all, because y'all go before him with prescribed anecdotes, and he's not gonna respond to that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You gotta keep it 100 before the throne. And I went before the Lord in all sincerity, as I always do, and I was like, Lord, you see, this has happened. I tried. I told the truth. I presented the visions. I wrote them and I made them plain, and he has rejected these visions. Therefore, I now reject him because he has rejected you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: We now reject him because God and De'Vannon Seráphino roll together as one. You will never find the one without the other. [00:55:00] Period. As long as I'm in this earth and as long as there is time, I shall serve the Lord before anybody. And I went before the Lord in all sincerity and asked him to lift that soulmate energy out of that dude and to put it in somebody who is worthy and somebody who will listen to visions and prophecy when it goes forth and not try to renegotiate it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I feel like the Lord has granted me that and I have, I don't think I met this guy and I'm not pressed about being in no rush to meet him either. But I'm going to warn you and I'm going to move on from this. Do not do what this dude who I just excommunicated, did he receive that very detailed dream and you can go back and find it in whatever episode I did it and try to remix it like he tried to do a piece of it, but not all of it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: He got enough sense to see that my visions and dreams are true. I am no false prophet. I know what the fuck I'm [00:56:00] saying. And the consequence of lying to the Holy Ghost or trying to act like you're hearing from God and not is death. You don't fucking play with this. He tried to do a little bit of it and not the other part.
De'Vannon Seráphino: If you believe the vision from somebody, you must believe the whole thing. You can't pick and choose what you're going to deal with. You've got to take all of God or none of him. And that's the way that it works. But people train themselves to have a little bit of a person and not all of them. And they think that with all this fucking around and this hoeing around and the sleeping around and these casual ways that people deal with each other.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And you train yourself to be that way, and then you labor under a strong motherfucking delusion, and I mean a strong ass delusion, that you can deal with God the same way that you haphazardly hinker people around like toys and take people for granted. Oh no, you will not deal with God this way, no matter who the fuck you think you are.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You [00:57:00] know, whoever the fuck you might be who have taken people to play with, but people are not to be played with. We are all God's celestial children and then you try to go before God With this rhetoric with this line of thinking like hmm. There's this whole ass vision you gave me I'll take this but I'll leave that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Oh, no Who the fuck do you think you are it's not gonna go that way boo boo No, it won't you keep fucking around you don't fuck around and find out exactly what God is capable of Once you have disrespected sacred vision
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's like he kind of sort of, it's like he wanted to try to finagle a way to kind of like maybe hold on to me, and also hold on to these evil ass witch energies that he's been catering to, who have been commanding him, he's not even thinking for himself, but it wasn't gonna [00:58:00] go that way. As the Bible says, a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You have to throw the entire devil out. You cannot placate and play with devil energy. Cause if a little drop of that shit gets in you, that's all the devil needs. He'll get in there and unravel you from the inside out and he gonna do it so slow over the years that you won't know when the fuck you stopped thinking for yourself.
De'Vannon Seráphino: When the fuck did them people took control of you through the devil. That's why as soon as you, like I said, at the beginning of this episode, as soon as you perceive foolishness in somebody, you got to get the fuck away from them. You cannot ignore red flags because that is the devil presenting and the Lord letting you see it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And if you keep going, then you kick God out and you let Satan in. Over a fucking person. You should not do this thing. A little leaven leaveneth the whole lump. It don't take no whole lot of devil energy to fuck up your whole existence. You better be damn careful. The prophetess [00:59:00] Nelson would always say y'all need to stop playing with the devil.
De'Vannon Seráphino: She would always say you need to stop playing with the devil. You gotta stop playing with the devil.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I, people who are in known, he ain't the only a damn fool who I have come across around New York or wherever, who have known the definition of codependency, narcissism, fucked up attachment styles, and are still trying to be in relationships with these people. Bitch, it's not gonna work. The death, the very nature of them energies, narcissism, narcissism, codependency, all them fucked up attachment styles, et cetera, et cetera.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Their very nature is to be inflexible, to not yield, to not bend, to not grow, to not evolve. You're trying to take a rock and turn it into a river. It will not work. Work.[01:00:00]
De'Vannon Seráphino: Leave the fucking rock, and go get you a fucking river. Instead of trying to do this strange ass alchemy that's coming from fear of loss and an unwillingness to detach, God is not with you in this thing. That's why you've been in them relationships, some of you for fucking decades, and it ain't gone no damn where because the Lord is not in it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You don't wore yourself out. Got gray hair? You didn't need to have and embarrassed yourself before the divine over a fucking human.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I keep saying I'm gonna get off this, but I like to use lessons from people, even if they were too much of a dumbass to change themselves, at least we can help some fucking body else, right? Which is the point of it all, because I have enough sense to know that that dream, that detailed, long dream that I had wasn't just for him, it was for the world.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So, I'm gonna say this again, you know, even though I said it a different episode, beware of this controlling [01:01:00] ass female energy that is prevalent in society. This thing with men, dudes can have all these muscles, all this money, all this ego or whatever. Fight each other and then let a, let a fucking little woman come up and break his whole fucking kingdom.
De'Vannon Seráphino: There is a certain inherent something about men that has a fucking weakness towards women. Take the story of Samson and Delilah and go read it it's in the Old Testament. Dude was strong. Nobody could fuck with him and he got weak over a girl. You know and lost his strength and everything. Boys, Be fucking careful.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I don't care anatomically, man, woman, y'all been watching this show, you know, we down with trans everything. Get my fucking point. Okay. This, this, this, this controlling as fucking female energy. When I was down in Mexico, I was talking with the lead, you know, [01:02:00]spiritual teacher who I went to study under and I was telling her about this vision that I had about this dude and, how, his unwillingness to fucking be flexible.
De'Vannon Seráphino: and everything like that And she kind of looked at me shocked. She was like, yeah, that's true. Women are controlling and they do like to go around finding men to control. She was very surprised that I knew that, you know, but I did not know that. I knew women could be bitches. I knew they could really be fucking hard to get along with as any of us can.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I am not woman bashing. If you are a low vibrational fucking cunt who likes to go around trying to deceive men and entrap them and control them, fuck you. Like, fuck you entirely, and the Lord will deal with your ass. But and but she, but I didn't know this finitely until I had that dream about him and I kept going.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Thinking about it over the weeks, and [01:03:00] the lessons just kept coming to me from this vision God gave me, and I was like, damn, this is, because in this dream it was just two men, and probably like 20 fucking females, and them boys were just like, mindlessly giving these women whatever the fuck they wanted to make them happy.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And it's like they were under their control. They were like zombies. And there was all kinds of warnings about bad health and every fucking thing in that dream. It was just one of the darkest dreams I've ever had in my existence. And I was vexed for seven days after that dream with this feeling of sensuality.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It felt like my skin was burning, like how I used to feel when I would smoke crack. I haven't touched crack in a long ass time. And so after seven days it lifted, I couldn't fucking sleep. I was up. I was th th that, that, that vision put me through more than I can tell you. And I'm not complaining 'cause it's my duty's what I'm supposed to do.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm happy to have done it. [01:04:00] And but when I was down in Mexico with this woman, she was like shocked that I knew this. And so I get it boys. We don't know this. We're not trained and raised as girls. And so we don't fucking know what the fuck women think like that. But understand my boys that some women are trained from little girls to think that they cannot make it without a man.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And some of them don't outgrow that stupid shit. And then, and then they honestly believe that their only way is to find men to dominate and control and she can't fuck with, she just don't want to let him go. So then they put him under witchcraft and different spells, command his ass and to keep him. So what am I saying?
De'Vannon Seráphino: Sometimes The woman who you think you met by accident wasn't an accident. Maybe she went out and intentionally hunted. A weak willed, weak minded man, perhaps somebody freshly broken from a relationship he [01:05:00] hasn't taken time to heal. All of this is prime pickings for a witch. Because you ain't got enough sense to stay out of a relationship until you're fully healed, she will gladly take you and dominate you and manipulate you, manipulate you because you are not strong enough to resist her.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You can't resist her magic, you can't resist her anything if you're not coming from a strong space. And, and so you, so sometimes these women go out and find men who are weak and they never fucking cared for these dudes. They just wanted what they could get from them. And in this dream, these women were not giving these men a lick of fucking attention.
De'Vannon Seráphino: They were fucking around with each other. And so that, that let me know that you, that they, that you have entire covens of witches that are like lesbians, but they will go and fuck a dude every now and then, or get some oral sex from him. Or whatever the case might be to keep the sex magic going or whatever the domination hex this witchcraft they have them under to keep draining their resources, time, [01:06:00] energy, money, all of that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: They'll take it all. These girls have no fucking loyalty towards these dudes who I saw in this dream, but the devil is a creature of habit and he repeats patterns globally. So what the devil has done to these two dudes, he has done to other dudes in this world. through women, who never really liked these dudes, but gave them just enough attention to keep them fucking dangling.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Until they can weave their spell around them tightly enough so they rarely have to do anything at all. You ever have meet somebody and they want to have sex with you so fast, they do it once or twice and then they act like they ain't interested anymore? You gotta be careful with that shit. You gotta be fucking careful.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's why we're not supposed to have sex with people until they are fucking devoted. And I mean fucking devoted. You know, to us. You have to have time to prove people. Don't just go open yourself up to people because you're lonely or you need some effect girl. Bye. Stop it. It's fucking stop it. It's stupid.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Stop. [01:07:00] Keep your damn clothes on.
De'Vannon Seráphino: They start with this shit young too. I've had to help young teenage boys get unhexed from teenage witches who had learned this shit from their, from the women raising them. It's out there. It's prevalent. On the Sex, Drugs, and Jesus website, I went ahead and just did a blog and put Most of the things that I know how to break witchcraft spells because so many people were just hitting me up like on the TikTok channel about the different curses they've been put under I was just
De'Vannon Seráphino: like, okay, I'm just gonna put it out there. It's there. I put all the disclaimers there. Go read it because because witchcraft is not going to get any better. It's only going to get worse as the world worsens and more trouble as time comes, people will get more desperate and be willing to sink lower. To hold on to the things of this world, because people have not mastered detachment, and you can get witchcraft [01:08:00] supplies on many websites delivered to your door with a child's fucking
De'Vannon Seráphino: Allowance. I mean, witchcraft is really nothing more than oils and herbs. It's not expensive. Anybody can afford it. So it's easy to get anybody, all kinds of people be doing it and they look like every damn body else wearing t shirts and jeans, what Wizards, Witches and Warlocks look like. So be careful about this pushy ass, controlling ass, female energy, okay?
De'Vannon Seráphino: And if some shit don't feel right, it ain't right. Get the fuck away from it. I don't give a damn how long you have known some damn body. That person is not who the fuck you met however many fucking years ago. It's too dangerous to stay. It's fucking dangerous. You gotta go.
De'Vannon Seráphino: [01:09:00] I want to talk about that word monogamous ish, which I mentioned earlier, that, that fool I cut off, we, that he used to describe himself as. Monogamous ish is bullshit. Bitch, either you are monogamous, you are going to be polyamorous, or some sort of clearly defined, like, what is this ish shit? This is that gray area that people like to be in when they don't really want to be one way or the other, but what Jesus Christ said about this is if you're going to be lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, not hot nor cold, he's going to spew you out of his mouth.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And God said that a double minded Person is going to be unstable in all their ways. You're going to be on one side of the fucking fence or other. You can't just run off and do whatever the fuck you want. You know, God designed relationships. God designed sex. And it's like the world has just spun off in all of these different angles with, we'll have this version of a relationship that works for us and we'll call God [01:10:00] this, the universe or source or a tree or a plant.
De'Vannon Seráphino: He didn't ask you to call him all that. He also did not ask you to, take his design for a relationship and turn it to monogamous ish. Or whatever the fuck else happened to pop up into your fucking mind, did you go before the Lord and ask him if this shit was okay. If all these other names you want to give him are okay.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Or if all these other ways you want to rehash relationships are okay. Did you? I know you didn't, because so much of this is tied to like devil energy at its core, and it's difficult to see, because, because you can't tell the difference in between the truth and a lie if you're not filled with the Holy Ghost.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You have to have the gift of discernment, you know, from God and have some type of spiritual standard from, from heaven to be able, because like I was saying earlier, a spirit can show up to you and lie. Amen. Amen. , you know, and devils will [01:11:00] come to you in a FA with a familiar face. And with familiar feelings, and a devil can make you feel sensually good, that don't mean that it's righteous what you're doing, or that it balances out with heaven's frequency, or that you're operating at a high vibration because it makes your titties tingle.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Okay, it does not mean that. And so my question to you is all of this makeshift shit you're doing, all of this remixing, you just want to do shit your own way, does it check out before God? Did you ask him if it's okay? And it, are you getting more out of it than just another sensual feeling or distraction, you know, where did this come from?
De'Vannon Seráphino: I've sat here and I've watched this world run off with everything that's trendy and popular, but I'm not seeing very much cross checking, fact checkings in the spiritual realm. to see if this shit really balances out and makes sense. I dont give a fuck how popular something is, you know, the road to hell, as they say, is paved with good intentions, but what the [01:12:00] Lord said is that wide is the gate that leads to destruction that hell hath enlarged herself but narrow is the way that leads to your eternal life so in other words you have a strong community vibration and community sense that will that will all walk themselves arm and arm right into hell Because, because, because the path to hell is not an isolated path.
De'Vannon Seráphino: This is the path of people who are in the mix, they're involved in all of this shit and always want to be around people and in somebody's energy in some type of way. So I always warn you about getting your fucking ass in a purposeful isolation, you can see the fucking forest from the trees. Because groups of people will fuck around and land their ass in hell, both in this life and in the afterlife, and do it in community.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I don't go run off to every damn community thing. I be like, who is there? What are the spirits there? Like I told you, I don't people watch, I spirit watch. Community sounds innocent, but it can become a trap and a prison too. You ought to be damn careful with this community obsession [01:13:00] that people have.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's another one of those. Fucking cliche words that people use all the time. Experiences, community, the universe. You don't even know what the fuck you're really talking about. It just feels good enough for you to feel like you're doing something, but you haven't really defined what the fuck you're really doing.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm judging you for that. That's why I gave a fuck enough to sit down here and do this show because I'm trying to help you because you're knocking on the door the right direction, but you got to get more finite with what you're talking about, especially like I said earlier to survive what is to come, you know, upon this earth.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You see in that dream I had about that dude I no longer engage with in any fucking way. It was a strong sense of community judgment upon, it was upon him, the judgment was really upon him because the prison, the offer was written to him to get free, not necessarily presented to the other people, I don't know, the [01:14:00] dream wasn't really for them, it was for him.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But nevertheless, there was a community element to it. We will come under judgment for our individual choices, but also what we did in community too, so you better be fucking careful with who you engage with, because everything we see is, is, is, will be judged.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But you got to get close enough to God for him to tell you if something is right or isn't, you can't just do it because it feels right, or because everyone's doing it, or because it's on social media, or because you saw it on television somewhere, or on a talk show, or your mother told you to do it, or whatever, you got to hear God, and nobody else, if it comes down to that, you have got to hear God, you have to hear God before anybody else, always.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Always hear God before anybody else. But what has happened is y'all have become too emotional, too damn nice, too trusting. Y'all ain't got enough street sense to sum it up. I thank God in heaven for letting me go to [01:15:00] jail as many times as I did, for getting all them felonies, for being homeless. Because now, you know, I'm able to mix my motherfucking drug dealing ass motherfucking street sense with my motherfucking spiritual and divine sense.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Okay, that's why I come at you like I do, because I be seeing what Lucifer is doing and like these little bitty manipulative ass things. I mean, manipulation is no small thing, but it's very subtle the way people be doing it and shit, and I be like, Oh no, I see you ain't going, you ain't, no, it's not going to work here.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I come up out the game. I'm from the streets. I'm living on the Upper East Side now, honey, but don't let the Upper East Side fool you. I'm not hood by no means, but I kept the motherfucking street sense. Cause that's what the fuck kept me alive. It was the Lord that kept me alive, but it was them street sense and being able to, you got to stay ahead of shit.
De'Vannon Seráphino: If you gonna make it, you gotta do it spiritually too, you gotta be quick, [01:16:00] you gotta be quick, y'all too damn slow, and you're too nice, and you're too trusting, and you're too complacent, and this is why the devil is ahead of you and you're not ahead of him.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Pleasure, without direction, focus, or like commitment, trains you to have rewards without sacrifice, which is not cute at all. I'ma say that one more damn time, pleasure. When you don't have a direction to it, a point, you're not devoted to the people you're doing this pleasure with, you're not trying to marry them.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You have to, you know, focus, you have no commitment to the people you're feeling good with, trains you to have a reward system without really giving the full amount of yourself that you're supposed to. You know, as the scripture says, you have multitudes, multitudes in the valley. of decision. What are they doing while they're in the valley of decision trying to [01:17:00] decide who they're going to serve or where they're going to go, but they're stuck in the valley of decision having experiences and, and, and trotting about with all this curiosity.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But you know, the Bible describes people like this as people who are lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God. I think this is in the book of It's either Mark or Luke, and it describes people like this as having a form of godliness. I said a form of godliness beating around the bush, but denying the power thereof.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You know, you're not really into God like you're trying to say you are and the universe. It's not God. I'm gonna do a different show on that. We're talking, you talk about two different beings.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Okay. when them people be trying to say God is the universe. You might be talking about some other God, but you're not talking about God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Ghost, not the triune God. You talking [01:18:00] about somebody different. Cause how often do you ever hear somebody who wants to quote the universe or source talk about the blood of Jesus, the sacrifice of Calvary, the crucifixion, baptism in fire and the Holy Ghost, baptism in water, like with John the Baptist.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I have never, I have never. Write me and tell me if you have heard somebody who, who, who always talk about like the universe and manifestation, bother to even fuck with Jesus, his blood, the Holy Ghost, and her fire, and water baptism, and all of those things. So if you're not talking about all three of those things, we are abso fucking lutely not talking about the same God, okay?
De'Vannon Seráphino: So your universe and your source over there, and then my God, Jesus Christ, and my Holy Ghost are over here. Flat ass, period. And there is a difference between people who serve God, Jesus Christ and the holy ghost and those who do not. And you will see that difference when what is to come comes to this earth.[01:19:00]
De'Vannon Seráphino: The fire will reveal it all, baby. The Bible talks about how you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, I'm just, I'm, I'm going to save that for later.
De'Vannon Seráphino: The Bible continues to talk about how these flighty ass people always want to have the asses in this experience and the next experience. It also describes you, you, as somebody who's learning, but never coming into the knowledge of the truth. You're beating around the bush, you're, you're never really settling your anchor in no damn where because you got another experience to go off and do.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You think you won at life, but you've lost.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And like I said, I'm not doing no more polyamorous anything because of all of these reasons. People are foolish and they're only getting stupider and I cannot get caught up with that. I can't trust nobody to have a high [01:20:00] enough level of refinement to be monitoring all of those energies. So boys out there listening, if you want to get at me, I am only doing monogamy.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I am not fucking with polyamory. I am not opposed to it. There's plenty of polyamorous, illustrations in the Bible. When it's done fucking right, it can be beautiful. Though those people had their problems with it in the Bible, just like people do to this day. It was not done perfect. But I'm not going to sit here and say that God is opposed to it, but those people worshiped God, and they were either married to or had some sort of concubine relationship.
De'Vannon Seráphino: They weren't just fucking people and leaving them. That is not polyamory. That's called being a hoe. God is not for that. But if you, but they, they were devoted to everybody that they were continually sleeping with on some type of level. That is, It's like, pure polyamory, or holy polyamory, or polyamory that will stand before God.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Not you just stickin it in whoever. That's not gonna work. [01:21:00] If you were actually in love with yourself, you wouldn't do things like that anyway, because all that's coming from a place of pain, confusion, self rejection, and all of those things, but at the end of the day, it's still fuckin wrong. And you shouldn't do it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So boys, that's all I'm going to do. I'm celibate, I don't have sex, ain't nothing been nowhere near, ain't no dick been nowhere near me and shit. Sometime around the middle of next year we'll be going on like two years and I'm fine with that because I've totally fallen in love with myself. The Lord is reshifting my energy around.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Like I said, you can go back and look and see the change that has come. Because I've been in like sexual isolation. I don't think that I would date a dude who's sexually active because why should I be sitting here with all this purity and take somebody who's out there fucking around? I'm not judging him, but I'm saying we're incompatible.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So in my head, I think I would want a celibate man, because I'm not, no, I'm not no damn fool, even though everybody, so many people are a hoe, not everybody's a hoe, it's just the hoes who've chosen to be [01:22:00] hoes. There are other people who are, who are not sexually active besides me. And so that is what I will wait for is a dude who ain't sexually active, who understands himself spiritually and understands why we will benefit from the power of monogamy and how we're actually not limiting ourselves.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Sometimes you can go a lot further by doing less. Sometimes you can get a lot more with less. It just depends on how you use what is in your hand, like when David slew Goliath. A rock didn't need a sword and a shield. He was skillful with what he had. You see,
De'Vannon Seráphino: you need to work on detaching from addictions like sex apps, grinder, tender, scruff, I don't give a damn what it is. The energy of those things ain't right. It's just not right. Then [01:23:00] I meet people. Some people I meet, you know, are celibate. Some of them are like, the fuck, I can't stop being a hoe. All right, well, you gonna have to learn how to stop, baby, because you can't.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's so hard to sit there and watch people who Want to stop sleeping around, but can't. I've been there before. I used to be on them apps and do all of that. I don't fuck with them anymore because the Lord changed me. When God changes you, you don't even have a taste or desire for things you used to do anymore.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That's called a strong deliverance. And all of them going to bathhouses and all of that shit that people like to do, boy, what the fuck are you actually doing? Like, what are you really doing with all that sex, all of these people? And and look, even if you call yourself being on these apps being one of like the 001 percent of a handful of people trying to seek true love and commitment.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You're trying to seek it in the wrong place. [01:24:00] You know, that's like you like going into a place. You're trying to find Angels in places where devils reside. Okay, that's just the energy of those apps is overwhelmingly low vibrational and devil. And so your genuine intentions, if you are actually on there for something honest, it's not going to overrule the other 99.
De'Vannon Seráphino: 99 percent of the people who are on there just to fuck, and to be avoidant, and to be abusive, and to gaslight, and to do all of those other things. Everybody knows those places, as the book of Revelation would call it, it's just the den, and the cage, and the hold of every foul and hateful bird. It's just a place where evil runs free.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's not a place to go for wholesome anything. Grinder, scruff, tender none of it. Even if you heard of somebody supposedly finding true love on these apps, you ain't got no fucking way of validating that. Everybody's gonna tell you their relationship is magnificent, and I've heard that a [01:25:00] thousand times, and then them people turn around and was divorced the next day.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Bullshit. And even if that were to happen, you have to be careful with variable ratio enforcement, which is what casinos use. What is variable, variable ratio enforcement? How they use those fucking that's what they use to program the algorithms to keep you coming back to those apps to keep you at the slot machine or whatever at the casino.
De'Vannon Seráphino: This means if you get a dopamine hit from the bright lights at the casino, you see somebody else get a million dollars. The little pingy noise grinder makes or whatever fucking app. Somebody sends you a message. You get laid or you hear about somebody else getting a relationship. Your brain says that could be me.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So I'll just keep coming back and investing energy into this app or going to this casino because that one person got a million dollars. It could be me. I heard this one person got a relationship. It could be me. [01:26:00] The chances of that actually happening is so damn small. The house, therefore, always wins.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Casino, you're playing against the house. In life, you're playing against the devil. And as we told you earlier, you better stop playing with the devil. And that variable ratio reinforcement. Is infused into those apps. Them people want you addicted to that shit. they don't give a damn about your personal fucking life.
De'Vannon Seráphino: They want you to keep coming so they can sell those ads to the people who advertise on there so they can pull that coin. You ain't nothing more than a dollar sign in a grinder and Tinder and every damn body else. You need to stop letting yourself be disrespected by those apps. And either way, that negative energy that you're exposing yourself to, which I just described to you, is hurting you in ways that is too minuscule for your conscious mind to comprehend.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But over time, you're, you're chipping away from your self esteem, your self worth, your equanimity, your, your, your sense of self value. Like I said, at the beginning of this [01:27:00] episode, the devil is after the way you feel internally and through Grindr and Tinder and other places like that, Lucifer can reach directly into you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And snatch you down from the inside out. Because when you're on those apps, you are in a constant state of like this hypnotic state of hypersuggestibility, and you are very impressionable because of all the things moving about in those apps and your subconscious mind is taking all of that in. And then you put the app down and you feel like you run a damn marathon and you're exhausted because of all this devil energy that's operating inside of you and has impacted you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Then you go out into the world, and now you can't show up to the relationships the way you, you want to, the way you think you can. You can go fuck, but you can't have a fucking conversation with a dude who's interested in you. You can't ask him out. If he asks you out, then you freak out and run because it's too much.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You did this to yourself when you [01:28:00] let them fucking apps program you and you didn't realize it was happening. That's one way you did that to yourself. There are many ways that I have covered in other shows, but how you do anything is how you do everything. That's how they say in John Wick, and you better be careful with how you living your life.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Your consequences, the stakes have gotten so high spiritually, and the consequences are about to get more intense. And more intensely severe. Because y'all have been playing with this devil energy for too long and, and God has gotten tired of it. Y'all have disrespected God, cast his visions and his warnings to the side to go run hop in bed with people who your hearts was not devoted to.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You're not going to be allowed to continue to do this forever. You either gonna stop willingly, or you will be stopped. In the tarot, we call this the tower. I suggest you not force a divine [01:29:00] cessation of your activities.
De'Vannon Seráphino: As you move forward, let exes go. Old friends, shit that didn't work.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That shit can be a subtle subconscious crutch to you. I will not accept a man who is in any type of relationship with an ex. I do not give a damn. You did not want a friend when you met them. You wanted a lover that didn't work out. Go your separate ways. Because what people are doing is kind of sort of holding on, but not really ready to let go.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I don't have time for that. I need a man strong enough to master detachment, period. You
De'Vannon Seráphino: them things can become [01:30:00] like crutches, and you won't be able to advance as far as you can in life by holding on to shit. And these old relationships, I don't care how cute they are. Or whatever the fucking case might be, because see, the devil is very satisfied keeping you at whatever level is under a hundred percent.
De'Vannon Seráphino: God wants you at a hundred percent. I'm not saying you're gonna be perfect, but you will operate at a capacity where you're doing everything you were sent to this earth to do. And that is a good enough one hundred percent to me, because it's the Lord that gives any kind of benefit to what we do anyway.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Our task and job is to get up and fucking try, and to do it to the best of our ability. That rounds up to 100 percent to me, but when you fucking with people in your energy, like I told you at the beginning of this show, energy is either going to enhance you or they will decrease you. There are no neutral energies, okay?
De'Vannon Seráphino: You keeping all this old shit exes and shit like that is draining you. It's subtle and your mind won't be aware of it, but that Lucifer going to have you operating at 85%, [01:31:00]92%, 95%, 75%, 65 percent and you still going to be doing some shit. But you're not going to be doing all the things that you were supposed to do for God and for yourself and for the, really for the people you claim to want to be in a these relationships with, or you won't be, you won't be doing it at the efficiency level.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You won't be rendering the results you and God as you co create together. You won't be able, you won't, you won't be operating at the level you're supposed to and for the devil, that's a victory. Because that other 25%, 8% 2%, 30%, 50% that he kept you from is somebody who should have been helped, somebody who should have been touched, somebody who should have improved because of your life, and you let them people go without the help they were supposed to have.
De'Vannon Seráphino: 'cause you couldn't let a motherfucker go from the past.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Be careful about[01:32:00]
De'Vannon Seráphino: old photos, clothes, and things like that. Shit people gave you. Energy can creep in the most unsuspecting of places, and if you're dealing with a witch, a wizard, or a warlock, they can use that old shit to keep a tie to you. When I got rid of that narcissist, baby, we, we lit a few things on fire. Sometimes you gotta do what you must.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And Glory be to God in the highest. Threw that shit away, gave it away on Facebook, whatever the fuck. I went through every goddamn toothpick. Every goddamn thing, every video, every photo. No memora-fucking-bilia. Because I was bound and determined to get rid of that fucking energy. It had to fucking go. It had to fucking get the fuck up.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Uh uh. Not [01:33:00] today, Satan. Not today, not tomorrow, not next week, not next month. And you can't come back in a year from now. Get the fuck out and stay out. Period. And non fucking negotiable. And when you get rid of these damn people, when you do detach, you best believe they gonna circle around and try to come back.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But what is happening in the Bible, Jesus gave this, this analogy, when you cast a spirit out, an evil spirit, that thing goes and wonders. It got accustomed to you. It will come back and try to move back into you because it liked living inside of you and being around you. Like I told you, the things have a mind of their own.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But what happens if you let that thing back in, go read that scripture, that thing the Lord said will bring seven other spirits worse than itself and the state of you is going to be worse than the first. If you entertain this old energy and all of this is through a motherfucking person, Walking [01:34:00] themselves back into your life after you kick them out.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It could come in the form of a habit that you let go of too. If you stop crack or crystal meth for some time, you go and pick that shit back up is going to be worse this time around. That is what the moon card, that's how, that is how I read the moon card with what the Lord has showed me about the moon card, the tarot, which comes after the tower, if you get your ass towered and go through all of that, there are two towers in the, in the background of the moon card, that moon is thinking so fucking hard.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And it's like you passed on from those towers to make it through the point of the moon, but if you fuck up and get reentangled with old energy or old people, or for damn sure if you never left the damn tower, if you never detached in the first place, then you haven't even made it to this point and you still stuck in devil energy.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But if you go back, it's like your state gonna be doubly fucking worse. So don't think the devil just gonna, he don't want to let you go. It is not gonna [01:35:00] be easy to detach because that's Lucifer fighting you. He's got comfortable having you under bondage. Them witches and everything, they don't like letting those men go.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Cause now they gotta go find somebody else to to entrap. They don't love them. They just hate the fact that they had to do this work all over again. They ain't got no love for them boys. They never did.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You got to detach from your children too, in the sense that you have to understand that that child is not yours. You're a steward of that child. It's like what I was, there's one couple who I heard about lost their child, they died in some type of way, and they didn't do that thing that a lot of couples do, you know, they turn against each other and fight, or it's your fault, it's their fault, I dare you, and then you get divorced and everything, like they weren't in a relationship before the child was born.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And these, and this couple was just like, You know what? [01:36:00] This child belonged to the Lord. We're thankful for the time we had with him. We send him back to the Lord with grace and gratitude. Now I'm sure they had to go through some tears and counseling behind the scenes, but they wasn't cutting up and acting a fool, okay, either, which never solves anything.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And so what am I saying? You are a steward over that child that you don't own that child. You are a steward over yourself. You don't own yourself. You are a steward over your house, over your businesses, over your gifts, over your garden, over your cell phone, over your time, but you don't own a damn thing because everything belongs to God ultimately.
De'Vannon Seráphino: All right? So I would, I would just thought I would mention that specifically about children, because people have a way of idolizing their children, but that's actually not even your child. And what you're going to have to do is account to the Lord for how you raise or failed to raise that child. So while you're being like, [01:37:00] entertained by them or whatever the fuck reason you had children or whatever, however that came about.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Understand that you have a karmic obligation with that child and you will have to explain. Yeah. The way you, your job with that child to the Lord is not just fun to be had. It's, it's a strong thing to raise an eternal and every one of us is a celestial eternal who shall never cease to exist in some form.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And what you're raising is, is an eternal soul, not a cute chubby baby with rosy cheeks. That is an eternal soul.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You got to detach from yourself. The best way I can describe self detachment once I realized I had been granted it, I I was one day I looked around and I was like, wait a minute. It's like I'm evaluating myself [01:38:00] almost like with this feeling of being like from the outside looking in that I was calm. I'm not judging myself.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm like giving myself an analysis here. Interesting. I had to tell you, I'd realized that detached from myself when shit that used to bother me that bother me anymore. People, the shit that people say and do could give a I'm not disassociated. But I'm detached. It's two different things. I'm not disassociated, but it's like a, it's like an awareness of myself apart from myself.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's more of like a governance of myself. And this is where self mastery comes in. I'm feeling this emotion, but I'm not about to act on it. I'm hearing this thought, but I'm not going to do anything with it. This person's in my face trying to get my energy. And I'm just going to stand here and act like they're not talking to me because I don't, can't nobody make me do anything I don't want to do to include talking to somebody.
De'Vannon Seráphino: People try to get my attention all the time when I'm at the club and I'm not trying to talk to them. I don't have [01:39:00] to. And they just fucking get the point and walk the fuck off. I'm not rude. They always do this when I'm in the middle of ministering to the Lord through psychedelics. I dance, but I'm ministering to God and having a conversation with the celestial realm.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'm not interested in high fiving people and doing elbow bumps and all that. They get the point. You came here to socialize and get in other people's energy because you're lonely and miserable on the inside, but I actually am not. And I came here to worship the Lord. They can't hear what this God is sending through this DJ.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Now, after I calm down from these psychedelics in 15 hours, then I will talk to you, but don't you get the fuck out of my face when I'm in the middle of my, my glorifying God on these psychedelics. Boy, bye. And girl, bye too, because I don't have time for no fucking body. And I'm talking to my God to get the fuck out of my way.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I'll get to you next, but Jesus comes first. [01:40:00] The self detachment is a thing. It is a very powerful thing. You stop being sensitive, you stop taking everything personally, you realize that everything's about you, and you let everything and everyone go. It's a very free space to live in. That's the best I can describe it to you on today.
De'Vannon Seráphino: But there are many, many secrets to walking with the Lord that just will not be revealed to you unless you get with God. Oh, yes, the Bible speaks about the secrets of God that is with his chosen children. You can, you might be chosen. You got to fuck around with God to find out and pray and fast and get before him and things like that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And then when you try to detach from people, it's quite natural they're going to try to come up with excuses to try to keep you. Some of this is subconscious. Some of it is quite intentional, like with the witches. But you cannot let yourself. Stay because they want you to stay. You leave no matter the fuck what, because you cannot live off of somebody else's [01:41:00] desires.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And you're going to look crazy to people because in this world, in this day in time, to look crazy, freedom is crazy. A sensible, well balanced, stable heart, mind, body, and soul, and somebody who is in union within themself and who has demonstrated self mastery is the exception yeah, you look fucking crazy relative to the energy of the world.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So fucking, let's fucking lose our minds then if that's what it fucking takes. I did intentionally lose my mind because the mind that I had before was so damn abused and beat up and had everybody else's fucking voices in it. I told the Lord, I need to lose this mind. I need you to give me another one. If that makes me crazy, then oh, fuck well.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So be it then. Because sanity. It's what looks crazy in this, in this world and crazy is what is acceptable, fuck that. I don't have the time for it. But I thought about, and this shit can appear subtle, like I don't talk to like my former siblings anymore from the blood [01:42:00] family I divorced because they, everybody was so goddamn low vibrational and willing to placate to narcissistic energy and be like, You're not going to come be nice in my face and then go home and beat your spouse.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Oh, no. I'm not having it . Fuck that. Fuck that, fuck that, fuck that. And mm-Hmm mm-Hmm. And then my mom was trying to tell me when I was down in Louisiana the last time, she's like, yo, you need to talk to your siblings. I cut her clean off. I said, oh no baby. You need me to talk to my siblings because you need.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Me to help you reinforce this lie that this family ever was a family and not a bullshit ass construct that, that, that you helped to build around that narcissistic husband of yours. I'm like, the house was never a home. The family was never a real family. We never had true cohesion, and we were never really there for each other the way a real family would be.[01:43:00]
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I have therefore removed. Myself from whatever the fuck that is that y'all have going on over there. I said it respectfully to my dear sweet mother. Okay. But after that she understood. Okay. And, and, and, and, and then that shut down that, that fake ass energy trying to re entrap me from inside of her because I rejected it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: The devil is not, cannot force himself upon you like that. Through witchcraft. That's different. But this is not witchcraft. This is the devil trying to sneak into me through my mother with something that seems so innocent, like, oh, talk to your siblings. But I'm like, no, they operate in devil energy.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Therefore, I will not talk to them. And then the family is not a real family. The house is not home. I will not because I cannot defile, you know, my purity and all this work that God and I have done over no [01:44:00] Damn body.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I thought about, you know, how when I sold my car to the dealership to move to New York, I fucking cried. Like, tears. Like, what the fuck am I crying over a vehicle that I didn't even pay for? Like, you just never know how fucking attached we get to things. What is it, was it a sense of control that, that I thought I was letting go of by being able to hop in the car and go where I want, when I want?
De'Vannon Seráphino: Was it just because it had gotten so damn familiar? But I cried those tears and I let the damn thing go. I didn't like that. You know what, you know that, that, that, that owned the, did the idea of being a car owner have some sort of control over me? What the fuck? You know, why was I emotional about letting that die?
De'Vannon Seráphino: You just never [01:45:00] really know just how deeply attached to shit you are. Okay? And I let that car go and I'm so happy that I did it. And I'm like, why the fuck did I ever own a car? I love walking. It's helped to reshape my body, my soul, because when you do physical fitness and I'm going to do a completely separate show on the spiritual benefits of physical fitness and the intersectionality.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Spirit and fitness. You're not just moving your body, but you're keeping the spirits and the energies around you refreshed. This won't really help you if you going home to codependent ass relationships, though. You just gonna undo the spiritual work you just did and or if you're entertaining devil energy in any way, you just gonna undo it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: So, so I thought about that like, fuck, what else might I be more attached to than what I'm thinking? Jesus, take it away. I don't need all of this. And I thought about the woman in the Bible with the alabaster box. The one who washed the feet of Jesus with her hair and that expensive [01:46:00] ointment before he was going to go be killed and crucified.
De'Vannon Seráphino: That woman detached from herself, she detached from money, she detached from physical things, she was not tethered to this world. That she was humble enough to do it in front of rich people who were throwing shade at her, she gave no fucks. She had her fuckin eye singularly focus on her God, and that is all that she was there to be concerned with.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Just like me at the club, I'm here to talk to Jesus, not y'all. Deal with it. But I respect that woman for humbling herself and for doing what the others couldn't. And, you know, that is a power to be detached. The person who came in there before Jesus and I think gave two mites, I think it was, which is like what two pennies and the other people had given all the money and the Lord said this woman gave more than all of y'all.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You know, this is, this is how God sees things, sacrifice. See these people made a covenant with the Lord by sacrifice. [01:47:00] The two mites were not worth as much as the oil in the alabaster box, but I think that might've been the last of that woman had. You know, in that alabaster box. And those two mites was all that woman had.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's the sacrifice. The Lord is looking for you to do something. That costs you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It's like I went down to Mexico and did all that training to learn how to lead psychedelic ceremonies. And like, even with my massage therapy, and I've been a licensed massage therapist for over six, seven years now, now that I've come up here, I don't charge. Not that I ever charged a lot anyway, you know, for, and I don't think I have charged for a massage since COVID because I closed my clinic then.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And then they were only like 50, 60 an hour, hour and a half. And I never upcharge for anything, whether it was cupping, aromatherapy, whatever, that I fear God and I can see the [01:48:00] usury in the, in that. And I don't want to do it. And usury is charging people way too fucking much money for shit. I don't charge people to lead them in psychedelic ceremonies.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I only do one on one ceremonies. What must they bring me? I don't know. That's up for the spirit to tell them, like they have to bring something that they feel I would imagine. I don't put a dollar sign on it. I don't know if they want to barter or trade something. I let them tell me what they think God is telling them.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Because I want people to come before the Lord with pure hands and with a pure heart. It's not going to be a financial transaction. It's not going to be that. If they feel like the spirit is telling them that, I won't tell them a minimum amount of money or nothing like that. If the spirit tells me to do it for free, I'll do it.
De'Vannon Seráphino: It does not matter. You know, because what God and I are interested in is what's in the heart of people. Not so much of what's in your hand, we, we gotta work with what's inside of you.[01:49:00]
De'Vannon Seráphino: And see, one reason why people have a difficult time detaching is because people have so much of their self value tied to the things that you do for people and things that you do with people. But this is actually one prime and key way you actually give all your fucking power over to people. And you become addicted and codependent when your values are actually tied up in the Lord.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Not in you. Your value should be in serving God, not humans, because the Lord is never going to fuck you over. And the Lord told you to be careful with humans, because humans will fail you. That's in the scripture, too. Oh, I wish y'all would read the Bible. So many answers to so many of your fucking life questions have already been given to you in that book.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And, You have every version through like BibleGateway. com or other website. You have every version of the Bible available. You can find one you can understand. And when you don't agree with something, look up the Hebrew or the Greek or the Aramaic [01:50:00] version of it or message me. I can tell you how to do it or you can try to Google it, but you don't have to understand everything .
De'Vannon Seráphino: Well, is depending on your level of understanding of what you're reading and how it was written. Some parts of it you do need to be careful with. Like, say, the anti queer scriptures, which are not true, you, when you read them in the original Hebrew and things like that, so if you come across something that you don't seem like you want to fuck with, then that's when you break out the deeper studies for the Hebrew, but most of the Bible isn't like that.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And, because your value is tied up with people. You have to untwist yourself from thinking that you had a good day because you went and volunteered for somebody or you helped this person. You just gave that organization control over you. And organizations will fucking use that. Churches would do that. And it'd be like, oh, we can't make it without you.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You're such a great volunteer. This [01:51:00] church is built upon you until they find out you're queer, then they kick you out and suddenly they can do it without you. That's what happened to me at Lakewood Church. They were big on that shit. Oh, our volunteers are everything. Hashtag I am Lakewood. And other churches do it because other churches like to copy everything Lakewood Church does.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And the moment they felt like you're a threat, you gone. Now, what was that? I gave my power over to them, and I let them determine my value based on my willingness to go out there and perform a service, not just because I exist. You see, you should be valued by the people around you and organizations because you exist, not because of what you do.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Period. Period.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I just wanted to warn you. This is another thing I had not thought of in a long ass time. That when you're sitting looking at a person, you're not looking at them. Like I said, you need [01:52:00] to learn how to look at the spirit, but you can have more than one spirit residing in a person. I don't know how rare or common this is.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I learned this.
De'Vannon Seráphino: What, what interests me is how when I am in certain places and I might mention these things to people, how some people have actually heard of these things, but it's like, people don't be just saying, mention these strange things you hear me say on this show to people, and I'm curious to see how many people might actually have encountered some of this before, but see, a lot of times we'll be sat right next to people who have had strange experiences, but everybody wants to talk about the common everyday shit, who dated who, who fucking who, what the Kardashians did, you But you got the deep shit, the knowledge is actually right in the people right next to you, but y'all are not extracting it from each other.
De'Vannon Seráphino: This is a mistake. There was this dude I was hanging out with in high school. Friends, just friends. Yeah, and I started having [01:53:00] sex while I was in the military. I mean, he was attractive and everything, and I was into him, but But, you know, there was nothing that, that happened like that, but what I would notice, I would go and pick him up, trying to be nice, and he lived, like, in a trailer or whatever, I mean, I live in the fucking hood, so it's not like I was doing that much damn better.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I mean, there's some really fucking nice trailer parks out there, too. Shit, have you been inside some of these quote unquote trailers? Some of them look like fucking damn near mansions on the inside. And yeah, I almost bought one at one point, but when I was being like in the car with this dude at a certain time, just like at the corner of my eye, I would look at his face would look like it was distorted into like a mask.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Kind of like how Jim Carrey when he did that movie the mask, you know, or it was like it was like it would be like this twisted like looking version of but it wouldn't stay for long and I would look and it was like it would be gone that happened a few times and [01:54:00] I was hanging around evangelist Nelson the prophetess who raised me in the spirit granted her sight to see what I had saw.
De'Vannon Seráphino: You know, somebody with high vision, we don't just see our vision, but we can see your visions too. Okay. This is true prophecy. I mean, true, true prophecy, true clairvoyance. And, it's like how Daniel did in the book of Daniel, when Nebuchadnezzar had that dream and he couldn't remember it. And the Lord showed Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, and Daniel what that dream was. People with true vision can not just see for ourselves, but we can see what you have seen too. Glory be to God in the highest for allowing such gifts to exist in this present world.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And I was just sitting, hanging out with her as I would do. And she was like, you know, tell me about this, this, you know, this boy you've been hanging around or whatever, you know, how our conversation would [01:55:00] go. She would just be cool and easy with it. You know, let's talk about this boy. You know, I see this boy, you've been hanging around the spirit is showing me this boy.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And, she was like, see, it's just like, when you look at him, seems like you have a mask on. I was like, yeah. She's like, See, let me tell you, what you're dealing with there, you got one person with two spirits. Okay. I told my grandmother this, and she was like, she was telling me, you know, one of my sisters is that way too.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Nobody had ever mentioned this to me a day in my life until it happened, then I talked to it and it was like, yeah, I came across this too. One person with two spirits, that other spirit within, like, I think her sister was jealous of my grandmother. That other spirit within this boy, like the prophetess was telling me, wanted to attack me and hurt me, so I had to stop hanging out with him.
De'Vannon Seráphino: And some of these I don't know, the spirit is wanting me to, to warn you of this. So when you, sometimes when you dealing with people, you dealing with [01:56:00] truly, not just multiple personalities, but you've got many spirits that can reside in one person. And you can't be, you have to just, you got to tell yourself the truth and be honest about these types of things.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Don't, don't disregard. Sometimes what you thought you saw is exactly what the fuck you saw. Sometimes what you thought you saw is exactly what the fuck you thought you saw. And so when you get these people saying that they've murdered this person or that person and they don't remember doing it, I believe them and whether or not they they're guilty or innocent is not the point of the conversation.
De'Vannon Seráphino: I do believe that they don't know what the fuck they did because you have many, spirits that can reside in an individual. I just, I just felt like God wanted me to throw that out there and give you that information. Do with it what you're supposed to. [01:57:00] Do with it what you're supposed to, don't just let this information bounce off your ears like water's off a duck's back.
De'Vannon Seráphino: The last point I want to make is, is the person that you want to keep around who you act like you can't let go of, is it really that person you want to keep? Or is it the idea of that person that you want to keep? Or is it the fun you've had with this person you want to keep? Is it the sensual pleasures?
De'Vannon Seráphino: Is it really the person at all? Do you really even fucking know the person? Do you care to really look and see who they've become since you first met? Did you ever really fucking know them? Can you admit to yourself that you got in that relationship too damn fast and now you've got all these years that you can't account for?
De'Vannon Seráphino: Can you be humble enough to take that sort of lick and just be like, God, I fucked this up. I didn't, I didn't, I feel like I've thrown all these [01:58:00] years away over this bullshit ass relationship though the time is never really lost if you glean the lessons from it. What are you really trying to say for the person or for the experiences you're having with this person and for the lie?
De'Vannon Seráphino: They're helping you to keep up. It gets conflated. It gets hard to tell which is the truth of those, of this question I just posed to you. And that's the final thought I'm going to leave you with. What are your real motives for not wanting to detach from that relationship? What's the real reason? And I'll see you next time. Thank you all so much for joining us today and for taking some time to invest into yourself and into the lives of your loved ones, please visit us at sex drugs and jesus. com and check out our resource page, our spiritual service offerings, my blog, my books, and other writings that [01:59:00] God has partnered with me to create.
De'Vannon Seráphino: Find us on any social media platform, stay strong, my people, and just remember that everything is going to be all right. [02:00:00]
